Punky came over a few weeks ago to help me purge my closet of things I don’t need anymore (or rather never really needed in the first place). What I do need is to pay off some credit cards – so she came to my rescue.
The whole process was very overwhelming at first. I have a spare bedroom in my condo, and it had become my walk-in-closet. There were racks and racks of clothing to go through, and nothing I was ready to part with. Digging into the piles was such an emotional experience. With Punky as my no-nonsense guide, it became a cleansing of sorts.
I started to ask myself, do I really need 40 pairs of designer jeans, half with tags still attached? Do I really need this beat up pair of Levi’s that haven’t fit me since 1992? Do I really need 15 pairs of stilletos that I will never be able to wear again? Do I really need enough tank tops to clothe a small country?
The answer was no.
The more I purged, the better I felt. I now had power over my possessions. Instead of being a slave to them, cleaning them, keeping them in order, getting depressed if they didn’t fit, buying more stuff to hang my stuff on, I was in control.
I sent piles upon piles to consignment shops, put some stuff on ebay, sent some stuff to good will, and still have some leftover for the next swap, which I will drop off early so I’m not tempted to take anything home. What a great feeling, less stuff, more money towards my bills, donating to people who need it – what could be better!
Looking back, I don’t know how things got so out of hand. A shirt here, a purse there, and 15 years later I was overrun with stuff. Since my closet-cleanse I have more free time, less stress, and it is much easier to say no to more stuff, no to spending, no to taking, no to piles of stuff that I just don’t need.
I’ve always felt like a home was a reflection of those who lived there, now that my home is less cramped and more comfortable my life is starting to feel the same way. This is a process I highly recommend to anyone with too much stuff, just be sure you have someone with you who isn’t afraid to crack the whip.
